Ah, the game of life. You have to play to win. Sitting on the sidelines or playing it safe in the bleachers will get you nowhere! You win some and you lose some, but even if you lose, I still believe you win.
Athletes are a prime example of this. The super successful ones rehearse winning in their mind. They see themselves crossing the finish line, catching the ball and making a touchdown or hitting that home run. Visualizing is a solid technique.
Where are you in life? Are you playing or are you on the sidelines? If you’re sitting stagnant, I would imagine your desires are stagnant too.