6 Tips For A Dating Mindset
Dating in 2019 and beyond is what you make it. This week I’m sharing with you six tips for a dating mindset. I hear it all the time – “There’s no good guys/girls out there”. Well, if you’re putting that kind of energy out there of course you’re going to attract dead ends in return.
Experience is power
I’m currently 34 and on the dating scene. I’ve tried it all – dating apps, online dating and meeting organically. I was even engaged a few years back, so let’s just say I never thought I’d be organizing a post about six tips for a dating mindset! However, through all of my dating and experiences, I’ve learned a lot. Most importantly, I’ve learned a lot about ME.
Dating in your 30’s can feel like defeat – or it can feel like freedom. I know how important mindset is as well as the language we use. If you focus on lack, you get more lack. If you focus on fun, adventure and dating being a journey, you’ll have a lot more fun. I believe each person we meet is a stepping stone to learn about our ideal partner. No matter what, it’s this, or something better!
What are you looking for?
A successful dating mindset means being clear on what you want and knowing what you bring to the table. Are you looking for a fling or long term? Do you want to be in the party scene or are you ready to Netflix and chill? There’s no judgment here – if you just want a hookup, get it, if you want more than that, be that person.
Here are my six tips for a dating mindset whether you’re currently on the dating scene or find yourself there down the road:
- Know what you want
- Be transparent and vulnerable
- Know what you bring to the table
- You’re already complete
- Be unconditional
- Rejection is simply redirection
I dive into each of these six tips in this week’s podcast episode. The most important takeaway, dating should be fun! If you’re not having fun, try to live a little and stop taking life so seriously!
To listen in to the full episode, click below.